WHY DO YOU BEHAVE THE WAY YOU DO?

Behavior is something unique to each individual,each individual has their own way of behaving depending on different factors such as environment,emotions,thoughts,values,culture and many others as we have seen in the past topic.

But reactions in these situations,feelings,thoughts can easily be explained by different personalities we posses.Bare in your mind that the way you are its the way you are its the way your personality present you.So you should not be shocked by the way you behave or react in different situation and environment.

Personality:According to different psychologists with their different personality theories,there is no single definition of personality.But since personality is made up of main three characteristics patterns which are thoughts,feelings and behavior,we find that personality refers to an individual characteristic pattern of thoughts,emotions and behavior and all these go with psychological mechanism hidden or not hidden behind those mechanism.And these three characteristics are the ones make you unique,and your uniqueness arises from within you and it remains fairly consistent through out your life.

 Note: 

• Personality is a dynamic and organized set of characteristics possessed by a person that uniquely influences their environment. 
• Personality is the one  which predicts human reactions to other people,problems and stress.

                                                         Find Yourself Who You Are

Now you can try to find yourself who you are or which kind of person are you.Try to see the following characteristics pattern of different personality,these present and show up the meaning of  your reactions and behaviors,and easily make you understand who you are. Basically there are different types of personalities depending on the personalities theories or perspective,but let us discuss the following four types of personalities which explain four different types of person.

The "A" Personality Person

This kind of person is sometimes known as a Performer, this kind of person has the following unique characteristics pattern:  

• Not easily discouraged and normally shows confidence
• Seems to be impatient at times especially if they believe someone is spending a lot of time following their successful completion on whatever goal they are focusing on at the moment.
• Usually very goals oriented and practical ion their solutions.
• Likes to be the in charge and be in control of their lives
• Don't like a lot of restrictions placed on them ,preferring to work independently and set their own schedules.
• Having an entrepreneurial streak and they may be business owners  
• If their job or routine is repetitive day after day,they get bored easily and not enjoying the work.
• But also the A personality person may not be very good at recognizing others feelings and needs,not because doesn't care but because they are so focused on achieving their goals. 

Note:If you are looking for someone who works well under pressure,and seem to excel high stress situations.A personality person is probably what you are looking for.

The "B" Personality Person

This kind of person is sometimes known as a Caretaker,this kind of person has the following unique characteristics pattern:

• Love to talk about themselves and some may view them as self-centered
• Very outgoing,energetic and who likes to be around people and enjoy being the center of attention.
• Their driving needs is for approval,so they try and like everyone in hopes that will be followed.
• They are good relationship builders and most people like them
• their biggest fear is being humiliated in public,this might make many people disapprove of them.
• Compliments and acknowledgement of their achievements from groups will be the most important thing you can do for them
• Tend to be dreamers and can often turn those dreams into very practical ideas in the workplaces
• Doesn't like to appear unattractive or unsuccessful
• Their real motivation is to be liked by others
• They are not good about hiding their own feelings,so if they are hurt or disappointed,you will probably be able to read it in their mannerism.
• In business may tend to socialize at work and not spend as much time doing their work because they strive for social interaction.  

The "C" Personality Person 

This kind of person is sometimes known as a Thinker, this kind of person has the following characteristic pattern:

• Is a very oriented individual that likes to be involved in things that are controlled and stable
• Tend to be quite controlling,both of themselves and others.They don't like things to get out of hand and may not appear very expressive.
• They are very interested in accuracy,rationality and logic
• They are very outcome driven and they are sticklers for following procedures and protocol in getting job done.
• Other people emotions may not be priority for them.
• They also dislike to be near people who are cool since they desire facts,accuracy and logic.
• Once they stand on an issue,they will have the facts to be back it up.So any one who challenges them better get prepared.
• They want their works to be clearly defined and want to know exactly what is expected of them.
• They are cautious,logical and require many details and facts before make any decision.
• But A personality person are normally very excellent for any job that requires creative thinking based on patience,facts and accuracy.

Note: Most Lawyers and Accountants are C personalities person

 NOW!!!!!!!

Where Are You?

Those are some but very important types of personalities which explain which kind of person you are, but these personalities can be multiple possessed by a single person. 

So try to check clearly and compare of your reactions and actions to understand why are you behaving the way you do in you daily life,you might not wrong to behave the way you do,but its because your personality allows you to do so.

But dont force to react or behave out of you,but check out who you are and go on with your life.